It’s been a while since I felt intimacy with a partner, and it’s bringing me down. Men pay for sex and companionship all the time, but the same thing doesn’t seem as acceptable for women. I’m really thinking of taking the plunge and booking an escort for a night out and then seeing how things go. Have you got any tips for me please?
Hi there, and thanks for writing in to us. I really admire your honesty for talking about what is still a taboo subject for women, especially if they have a disability.
Firstly, that gender stereotype with paying for sex MUST change! If it’s something that you are comfortable doing, and you’ve thought about any personal consequences it may have for you, go for it and have fun!! As with any date, I’d do some research and make sure the venue is accessible, if you require access, and I’d have some pointers in the back of your mind in case conversation dries up and you need an ice-breaker. Other than that, rest assured that this person is there to make you feel good: relax and enjoy! Depending on your impairment and needs, it might be good to discuss any ‘bedroom stuff’ beforehand, but that is at the discretion of the two of you.
Good luck, let us know how it goes…. 😉