The Question
Hi,
I am writing for some advice as a disabled wheelchair user with a complex physical disability who has a small structure with limited and short arms and was wondering if you might be able to recommend any devices for solitary enjoyment. I would be able to put a toy over my penis if the item was easy enough to stretch open without too much strength required.
Thanks,
Tony
The Answer
I can suggest some ideas for you – and hope that some will be useable with the strength you do have. Remember, it is ok to ask a PA/carer to assist you with the use of a sex toy – they can put the attachment on your penis for you, as long as you’re not erect. And they mustn’t be in the room when the toy is switched on, or when any sexual activity is occurring.
So, now for some product ideas!! –
- We have our new inclusive sex toy range, Quest, out now. There is a wand called Discover with a long handle and a grip handle for easier use with limited dexterity. If you sign up to the emails you get 25% off your first order!
This is a good product if you can manage to get the sleeve on.
- The handy is another option The Handy 1.1 Male Masturbator – Lovehoney UK
A couple of other options that I often recommend are
- Keon & Feel Stroker (kiiroo.com) This is a different style of toy but it is really good and you can also get accessories for it to help you hold it. It can be used interactively so may be a bit easier for you to use in that setting. Keon Accessories ǀ Kiiroo
A cheaper option would be the
- Kiroo Titan TITAN™ by Kiiroo® Interactive Vibrating Sex Toy for Men but this may be a struggle for you to use.
Hope you have some success. Would be great to hear any feedback.
Cheers,
Damien