May – Crouching reverse cowgirl, Girl on top, with a slight twist…

As a wheelchair user, most of the sex I’ve had to date has involved man-on-top positions, or at least man-in-control ones. My leg muscles can tighten and seize up and it’s often tough to have the conversation that getting a particular position right might take a bit of practise and patience, especially with new partners.

The girl-on-top, or cowgirl position, is one that’s really tested my patience to the point that I had almost given up trying to do it. The varying width of partners has often meant that straddling can be painful and I don’t have enough strength in my legs to ‘bounce’ up and down very well, which often makes the whole thing a bit of a disappointing show rather than an orgasmic performance! That is, until I discovered the crouching reverse cowgirl.

Turn away from your partner and, instead of sitting upright as you would in a reverse cowgirl position, lean forward so that your head is almost by your partner’s feet. If straddling is a struggle, you can also get into the same position, but with your legs underneath your partner’s so there’s no painful stretch. By holding the edge of the bed, putting your arms on the floor or even using your partner’s legs, you can get some amazing leverage and feel in control of the speed and depth with this position, and your partner gets a great view whilst being able to grab your bum or hips.

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