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Under Pressure

I’ve had wrist, arm, and back pain since 12, I’ve had hip pain since 15, and I first remember masturbating around 10 years old. Essentially, I’ve been chronically ill throughout my sexual development. Throughou...
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Buying Sex Toys 101

In my house sex toys are littered everywhere. If you come to visit there’s a pretty good chance you’ll find yourself either next to a sparkly dildo, or talking about a branch of sexuality (my go to is disabilit...
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New Medication New Rules!

I’ve been singing a lot of Aladdin to myself recently, a whole new world and whatnot. I’ve also been facing a few of my fears. This month I started a new medication, and not a medication that you can purchase o...
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Too tired to function.

I am currently in a fight with my inner ear, and my inner ear is winning. To decode that sentence - I have labyrinthitis for the second time in eight months. The long and short of labyrinthitis is that room spi...
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Learning Limits

I’m a firm believer that communication is the touchstone in any working relationship. It’s why this is my second post about it in a two month stretch. Communication, and talking to your partner isn’t just one o...